This Summer's Maine Event

That's right. Your favorite blogger is back from ACTUALLY GOING SOMEWHERE and is going to give ya the scoop. Try not to fall out of your chair in shock.

Back at the beginning of May, when there were still an impossible amount of days left in this hellish school year, I texted my friend Rachel: "Yo let's plan a trip for the summer...I got the itch to travel." Within an hour, we'd decided on destination: Maine for immediately following the end of the school year.

I know what you're thinking: why Maine? Three words: Acadia National Park.

Having decided that an 11-hour drive during the daytime would be a waste, we departed at 8:00pm on Thursday and drove through the night, arriving in Bar Harbor bright and early. Obviously coffee was the first (okay, the ONLY) thing on our minds, so after quickly scoping out our breakfast options (well, as quickly as two coffee addicts can when sleep-deprived and suffering from caffeine withdrawal) we got a table at Jordan's, ordering, in addition to the obvious coffee, their famous blueberry muffins, because, well, Maine...blueberries. Duh.

(This is where a picture of the aforementioned muffin should be, but in true Jess form, I didn't think to take a picture of my food until it was WAY too late.)

Feeling somewhat more prepared to take on the day now that we were fed and caffeinated, we set off to explore Bar Harbor a bit more, me with one earbud tuned into the virtual professional development I'd signed up for before realizing I'd be out of town. (Whoops...thank goodness there was a good cell signal in town.)

Having strolled up and down the main roads in town and bought maple candy to keep our energy levels up, we took the recommendation of a lady in the souvenir shop to check out the "Pahk Loop Road." A quick stop in the Visitor's Center for a park map ended in a sprint to the car when it suddenly started POURING. Since we couldn't check into our Airbnb for a few more hours, we decided not to let a little downpour stop us from our first foray into Acadia. 

Signs for Sand Beach caught our eye, so after strewing the contents of our backpacks all over the backseat in search of our rain gear, we ventured out.

Laughing at the fact that I almost didn't pack my rain pants.

It was rather nice to have the beach to ourselves actually, especially once the clouds quit dumping on us.

After getting overly excited about spotting a seal (that I may or may not have initially thought was an otter) we did a bit more driving around the park, which didn't do much to really orient us since we couldn't see past the heavy fog that lingered after the storm.

It will come as no surprise that we crashed early once at our Airbnb that night...I think I was dead asleep by like 7:30. Driving through the night sure does a number on one's circadian rhythm.

Thanks in part to a 4:45 sunrise--did you know that Maine is essentially an hour ahead of Maryland, daylight-wise? I sure didn't--we got an early start to our Saturday. Since the weather still wasn't the greatest, we decided to save the more epic hikes on our list for another day and headed to the trailhead at Echo Lake instead to check off some hikes a little further down our list. 

We got a smidge lost trying to find a fire tower at the summit of Beech Mountain, but boy were the views worth it!

Oh, wait...no they weren't.

Finally giving up around noon, we headed back to Echo Lake, where the fog had cleared enough at sea level to attract a few brave beach-goers. 

Picnicking and people-watching.

We decided to stick to sea level for the rest of the day and drove along the coast on the west side of the island (AKA, the less popular side). We spent the afternoon popping in and out of various harbor towns in search of tasty snacks (we found some!) and staring moodily off into the ocean (by which I mean trying not to slip off the rocks and into the Atlantic).

Nope, don't know that guy.

After accidentally seeing a lighthouse (having stated that I couldn't care less about seeing a lighthouse, we still somehow managed to stumble upon one 🤷) and discovering a few hidden gems like this...

...we decided it was dinner time. 

Our server was impressed with my tenacity in getting every last bit of meat out of this sucker...I told her I'd had years of practice on Maryland crabs, hon.

We only slightly regretted the decision to dine outside when it became so chilly that the melted butter re-solidified. 

Sunday morning was another early start, as we were headed for some of the more popular hikes that day, starting with Beehive Mountain, which overlooks Sand Beach.

What a fun hike...lots of rock scrambling and hanging onto iron railings on the way up!

As we hiked down the other side of Beehive, we got a few short gasps of sun through the clouds, which made already gorgeous views even more spectacular.

The revelation of these new spectacular views lured us back toward the water, and we followed the Ocean Path for several hours with our eyes wide open.

Just look at this!!

We turned around after a couple of hours and made our way back to Sand Beach, which was a whole other world with the sun shining. We ditched the hiking boots and braved the Atlantic up to about our ankles. (We'd laughed at the sign at the entrance to the beach, but it was 100% correct: that water is wicked cold!)

We made our way out of Acadia the long way that afternoon and headed back into Bar Harbor in search of dinner and aloe vera. (We were now very much regretting the decision not to make a pit stop at the car for sunscreen before hitting the Ocean Path.)

Mussels & fried green tomatoes...I could for sure go for some more of them right about now.

We did some porch sitting at the Airbnb before another early bedtime. (I know, I know...but we had plans to be up at the top of a mountain for the sunrise the next day, so...)

 Two-thirty A.M. came awful early on Sunday, but somehow it was still a race against the sun to get to the summit of Cadillac Mountain (the highest peak in Acadia) in time for the sunrise at 4:45AM.

We made it! (Barely)

We hiked down via the Gorge Trail, which lies between Cadillac Mountain and Dorr Mountain.

Looking at Dorr Mountain from the far side of Cadillac Mountain.

We had this gorgeous trail entirely to ourselves, except for two crazy (but very nice) guys who passed us as they were RUNNING down this (very steep, very rocky) trail.

Around 8:30AM, after having second-guessed where we'd parked (everything looked different in the daylight) we arrived back at the car. By this point, we'd been up for 6 hours and had already hiked 9 miles. It was time for some serious breakfast.

We don't mess around when it comes to breakfast.

We did a bit more wandering along the carriage roads through the park before we attempted to check out Jordan Pond and the famous popovers served at its shoreside restaurant. I say attempted, but we weren't the only ones with that idea and the wait time was BONKERS. So we slowly made our way back to the Airbnb for a nap.

On the way there, it occurred to me that we were not far from Echo Lake and that our swimsuits were in fact in the backseat...

...so we took a little detour. 

One much-needed power nap later, we made our way into Bar Harbor one last time, where we once again dined al fresco. 

Fish tacos

We let ourselves get talked into blueberry pie.
(Okay, fine, we were going to order it anyway even before our server suggested it.)

After lazing on the lawn overlooking the harbor itself, watching the boats going in and out, we decided it was time for some ice cream. (Yes, dessert again. Are you really surprised?)

Irish mudslide in a fresh waffle-cone bowl...life doesn't get much better.

We bade adieu to Mount Desert Island bright and early the next morning and headed for home. I have nothing to say about the drive home except that New York drivers are the worst, gas prices in New York are ridiculous, and the traffic pattern at the George Washington Bridge (combined with the aforementioned New York drivers) makes for a HORRENDOUS experience. The end.

To my loyal readers: thanks for sticking with me through my frequent and lengthy hiatuses--hiati?--I'm hoping to sneak in a few more posts this summer before the new school year sucks up my entire life again this fall.

A Day in the Life

Ever wondered what it's like teaching elementary school virtually? 

It's a whole new can of worms.

My day usually starts around 5:45am, with an artificial sunrise alarm clock that makes waking up before actual sunrise marginally less unbearable. Coffee is the immediate priority, obviously. 

Then once my coffee cup and eyes are about half empty and half open, respectively, I get dressed. Since it's winter, usually this means a nice sweater or blouse and cardigan, with fleece-lined leggings, fuzzy socks, and slippers completing the ensemble. One of the very few perks of teaching from home: I only have to look professional from the waist up. (A student asked me in October, "Is this what you look like at real school?" I said yes. What they don't know won't hurt them.)

By 7:00am I'm usually logged on to my work computer. Class doesn't start until 9:00am but I need the time to prep my PowerPoints and assignments. Theoretically, there 95 minutes of daily planning time built into my duty day, but even when I get all 95 of those minutes (read: on the rare occasions that there are no meetings scheduled during that time), 95 minutes is still not enough to: 

• grade assignments, 
• sort through and respond to the approximately 8,000 emails from parents, principals, and colleagues who don't know the difference between "Reply" and "Reply All,"
• create a day's worth of lessons and online assignments essentially from scratch (because the majority of "digital lessons" provided by my school district are in reality Word documents with a few vague suggestions)
  
• do whatever else gets put on my to-do list by someone else. 
  

At about 8:45am, I microwave my half-cup of now-cold coffee that I forgot to finish drinking as soon as I opened my computer, and then I log on to Google Meet. It's not an exaggeration to say that within 0.002 seconds of my starting the online meeting, a happy little "bing!" announces the arrival of at least 2 students. I spend the next 10 to 15 minutes alternating between listening to what everyone had for breakfast, dodging rather personal questions ("Ms. L., how come you're not married?"), and repeating the same beginning-of-class instructions I read off the screen every day: "Finish eating your breakfast, use the bathroom, make sure you have your Math and Reading books and a pencil, make sure your computer is fully charged or plugged in, make sure you are in a quiet place where you can focus."

You would think that they know the drill by now, especially since all of these directions are also on the screen, with pictures, as they have been since day one. But you would be wrong, because every day, several children will turn on their microphones when I am mid-sentence halfway through a lesson to inform me that they're going to the bathroom, or going to get their notebook, or grabbing a charger, or they can't hear me, shouting over the TV blaring in their background to let me know. (These are the moments when I say, "Okay, class. Ms. L. needs to take some deep breaths now before she flips her lid. Take some deep breaths with me now, everybody.")

*IN....aaaannd OUT..........IN..........aaaaaannnnnddd OUT.*

I like to start off the day with a silly check-in of sorts. Sometimes it's things like, "If you were a donut, what kind would you be?" Last Friday it was:

Next up is the Pledge of Allegiance and attendance. (Lately, I've been having the kids say a tongue-twister when I call their names. I tell them it's good fluency practice, but really it's just because hearing twenty-two 8-year-olds trying to say "Unique New York" is freaking hilarious.)

Then we move into Math, during which I have to remind multiple students multiple times that it is not in fact nap time, so you need to please sit up and pick up your pencil. After about 35 minutes of this, I send a link in the meeting chat to a quick quiz so I can see what the kids understand and what I'll need to reteach. Only about 60% of my students will actually click the link and do the assignment, leaving me to guess at what the other 40% have (or haven't) learned and try to plan my next lesson accordingly.

After that, we move into small group time. I meet with a quarter of my class at a time to try to reinforce what we covered in whole-group...assuming the kids log on when they're supposed to. Which, considering I tell them at the end of Math exactly who needs to be back at what time, and send them a link to the timer in the chat, AND send their parents a copy of our schedule every week, you would think they would at least mostly do. But again, you would be incorrect. 

*Breathe IN....aaaannd OUT..........IN..........aaaaaannnnnddd OUT.* 

Rinse and repeat for each subject throughout the day, with an increasing number of students showing up late to class, if at all, as the day goes on. Throw in a few dozen technical difficulties of varying degrees for me to navigate (in case you're wondering, it's not exactly a cakewalk to troubleshoot remotely with an 8-year-old on the other end) and forgotten usernames and passwords (which haven't changed since the kids were in first grade)...small wonder I sometimes need a 10-minute nap at lunch to get through the rest of the day.

At 3:10pm, the very end of the day, I offer 20 minutes of "Optional Help Time" for the students to log back on and work on their assignments with me. Of course, the few students who choose to show up are almost always the students who have already completed their assignments. In that case, we usually do a read-aloud (we just finished Frindle before Winter Break), or we play some Simon Says, or I just let the kids talk to me and to each other about whatever they want. Even though by this point in the day, my brain is totally fried and my eyes hurt and I still have a million and one things on my to-do list, I'm secretly bummed to kick the kids off at 3:30. Those 20 minutes of just hanging out with my students are secretly my favorite part of the day.

Often I take a break after that and go outside or get a workout in, and sometimes I just power through, but either way, I usually work at least another hour and a half after school doing things I didn't have time to do during my actual work day...with still plenty left to do when I log back on at 7:00 tomorrow morning. *sigh*

Man, I miss actually being in school. The kids miss it, too. At least once a day, I get a question about what our real classroom is like and what we would be doing if we were there right now. We miss high-fives and hugs, birthday crowns and science experiments. We miss actual books and paper assignments. We miss the cafeteria, the classroom, recess. Most of all of course we miss just getting to go somewhere every day and be around other people...

But, as I tell the kiddos, we have to keep reminding ourselves that this is temporary. This is the safe thing to do right now. One day, we will go back to "real" school. ("When?" they ask me. 😭) Until then, we just gotta try to make the best of it and keep on keeping on.

 

On the bright side, I didn't have to remind any of my students to put on pants this week. #littlevictories

Anything else you wanna know about the teacher life? Hit me up. 🠋

Here's Looking at You, 2021.

Let's not dwell on 2020 too terribly much; it's sufficient to say that it's been a rough year no matter who you are. I don't know about you, but I am SO ready to say adiós to 2020. 

Me, to 2020.

In just a few short hours, it will be a whole new year, shiny and full of potential. In the spirit of new beginnings, it's time for some new intentions. (AKA New Year's Resolutions™, though I stopped calling them that a couple of years ago.) 

In the field of education, we talk a lot about something called a growth mindset. In a growth mindset, failures are seen as learning opportunities and personal traits as a "starting point for development." For example, a person with a growth mindset might fail a math test and say, "Okay, let me look back at the problems I've missed and see if I can figure out how to do them correctly so I'll get better at this type of problem. I'll ask my teacher to help me with the ones I can't figure out." (By contrast, in a fixed mindset, a person's traits and qualities are perceived as unchangeable, and failures are, well...failures. I.e., "I failed that test because I'm not good at math.") Focusing on perfection (or lack thereof) can be very disheartening. A growth mindset is empowering because it focuses on making progress, which everyone is capable of making, rather than an unattainable standard of "perfection," which almost certainly means failure one way or another.

If you're setting goals for self-improvement, congrats! You're already incorporating some principles of the growth mindset. 🎉 Now let's take a closer look at the goals you're setting...

A few weeks ago--during a faculty meeting of all things!--I had a bit of an epiphany in terms of personal development. In a segment about the best ways to correct and redirect students' behavior, including our tone, body language, word choice, and more, we were reminded to focus on the behaviors that we want to encourage, not those that we want to discourage. Whatever we give our attention to is what will continue.

If you've ever failed at a New Year's Resolution™ or any other goal (I say "if," but if you say you haven't, you and I both know you're full of s***) it may have been because you had a negative focus, e.g. "Stop eating junk food." To rephrase this goal using positive language, try something like, "Replace unhealthy snacks with healthy ones, and intentionally choose my 'treats.'" Now you're concentrating on the behavior that you want to establish and continue, rather than the one you want to quit. This makes it easier to focus on and celebrate your successes, rather than beat yourself up over "failures." 

And, as in a growth mindset, remember to look at your "failures" as learning opportunities. For example: Why did I eat that entire bag of Cheetos? Because I was completely engrossed in "The Queen's Gambit" and didn't realize how much I was eating. What could I do differently next time? Well, I could pour out some Cheetos into a small bowl to exercise portion control, or swap them out for guilt-free baby carrots. 

Another way to revamp your New Year's goals? Try SMART goals:

Specific - "Get in shape." 👎 "Get at least 3 twenty-minute workouts a week."👍

Measurable - How will you track your progress toward your goal?

Achievable - If you've never run a mile in your life, don't expect to run a marathon in February.

Relevant - Why are you setting this goal? You've got to have a good reason to help keep you motivated!

Time-Bound - Having checkpoints for yourself will help track your progress, keep you motivated, and provide opportunities to re-evaluate as needed.

For me personally, I've found that large goals with smaller steps built in to each tends to work best for me. (See my 2019 Goals & Intentions.) That being said, this past year has been an education in terms of realizing simultaneously how much and how little I can control. There are still a lot of unknowns going into 2021, and considering how far off the mark I was with how I thought 2020 was going to go, I'm not even going to attempt to predict what this upcoming year will look like.

So my 2021 Mantra, if you will...

I will direct my energies toward what I can control 

& let go of what is beyond my control.

 

Global pandemic? Largely beyond my control. What I can control is wearing my mask, social distancing, etc. to keep myself and others safe and healthy. Whether my gym is open: not within my control. Being a total couch potato all day or going on a 20-minute run and then becoming a couch potato? I can control that. Whether we teach online or in person? Beyond my control. Setting and maintaining work-life boundaries either way? That's something I can control.

But the biggest thing within my control which influences all else: my mindset. Though there are a LOT of circumstances beyond my control these days, my attitude and my reaction to what's going on around me ARE within my control. When I catch myself with a negative attitude, I need to pause, pivot, and strive for positivity. Easier said than done, but it's something I'll be working on all year (and probably beyond).

All right, now it's your turn: take a moment to think about your goals for 2021. Have you already made them? Do you want to edit them? Go ahead and write them down somewhere. I'll wait. 

Seriously, take your time. 

 

All done and ready to start fresh tomorrow and every day after that? Yay! Break out the bubbly and get ready to ring in the New Year! 🥳

Let's kick start this year with a new attitude and new intentions.

2021, here we come!

Wanna share your resolutions/goals/intentions for the New Year? I'd love to hear them! ⬎